Well since he's 20 it likely isn't anything physical so it's likely just nerves. I mean, it's his first time EVER! He has the right to not perform appropriately With time and practice I'm sure he'll become more comfortable and things will get better. Well if you're worried, and he's worried Just relax and do some foreplay to ensure he's fully in the mood.
Ask a Guy: "I'm a Virgin But My Boyfriend Isn't—How Should I Feel?"
How do I take my boyfriend's virginity without hurting him emotionally? - GirlsAskGuys
There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak. Q: I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isn't and that really bothers me. We've talked about it a few times and it definitely helped, but I still can't get over the pain of imagining him with her. Any advice? And please don't tell me to just sleep with him because it might make me feel better about it. I'm confused.
22 Shocking Confessions From Women Who Took Their Boyfriend's Virginity
Thank you. What's weird is that I seem more scared than him lol How did you feel after you had sex for the first time? Any different?
Molly: We got addicted to Orange Is The New Black. Walking Dead was really good. CJ: Considering the strap-on play, is there anything you might consider too outlandish for a request. I had an awful request the other day. He wanted me to get beat up.