Who better to unveil the mysteries of the he-man psyche than a woman's best friend, the master of clever and refined thinking, the gay man? He knows exactly when, where, and how to elicit that ultimate ooh-ooh, because he knows all too well what he wants. Two fearless and dedicated scholars, Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman have conducted an intensive, lifelong survey on the subject of male pleasure, at times even descending into the trenches themselves. Now the wisdom they gained can finally be divulged to the heterosexual public.
Having sex with a man doesn't make you gay
Why some straight men have sex with other men
We are all pretty obsessed with penetration. And if you were to believe pornography—something that, at this stage, we should all know is not an accurate sexual how-to guide—anal sex is the ultimate goal when two guys get together. Dating back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role in the expression of same-sex sexuality albeit, with fewer varieties of lube. The art of anal sex is the thing that, both positively and negatively, has come to represent gay men. Rather, gay sex is more like firing up your PlayStation and playing Fallout 4. To limit oneself to just a single flavor is to shut out a smorgasbord of new experiences.
Can I Get Oral Sex From Another Guy and Not Be Gay?
Labels are important. They help us. They can protect us. One part of society where labels are changing is within sexuality and gender.
This divide stems from a common understanding of human sexuality: The female variety of it is more malleable, more inherently open to experimentation and variety, than the male variety. In doing so, she shows that homosexual contact has been a regular feature of heterosexual life ever since the concepts of homo- and heterosexuality were first created — not just in prisons and frat houses and the military, but in biker gangs and even conservative suburban neighborhoods. Science of Us spoke to Ward about her book.